Co-parenting: Being stuck raising your kids with someone you hate until they turn 18. A lot of time though, people have that mindset. Some people think that co-parenting relationships like Alicia, Swizz, and Moshanda and Jada, Will, and Sheree are just fairy tales. I hear horror stories about co-parenting relationships and I honestly don't get… Continue reading Co-parenting is what you make it
Sex before marriage. Whew. So this is an interesting topic. I'll give the history on where my viewpoints come from so you understand my stance on the matter. *Clears throat* Alright, so I was brought up in a Christian household. My mother was/still is a Minister of Music so I was in the church with… Continue reading Try Before you Buy…Not talking Cars.
Can sex before marriage hinder you from finding your husband or wife? Question of the day. A lot of women feel that if they have sex with a man too soon, or at all, he will look at her in a different, often negative, way. Others think it doesn't matter at all. Men get to… Continue reading Sex before marriage or nah?
Oh Valentines Day. So many people hate you, but there are so many people that anticipate this day so much, they start their planning on January 2nd. I am neither of those people. Once Upon a Time....... Way backkkkkkkk in 2003..... There was a basketball player and a cheerleader that rode the same middle school… Continue reading VDAY
So for one of my courses I did a blog post about code switching. According to Google Dictionary code switching is the practice of alternating between two or more languages or varieties of language in conversation. I discussed how for me, code switching has always had a deeper definition. Code switching for me means changing the way I speak or act… Continue reading If it aint white, it aint right. At least that’s what they trying to tell us.
Shucky Ducky and a Quack Quack February 14th. The day of love. Passion. Romance. Sybaris Sales. The time where Wal-mart and 'nem all set out the helium pumped, heart-shape balloons, the orchids and roses, red and pink cards, plushies, teddies, and Koalas that say "I'm Koalified to be yours," and of course the chocolate hearts.… Continue reading Happy Valen-spendalotofmoney-Tine’s Day!
Ever since I was little, I've had this idea of what adulthood should look like. For a woman, heels, blazer, skirt or trousers, and nice bag as a substitute for the mans briefcase. I received this image from seeing my mother work a corporate job my whole life as well as what the media portrays… Continue reading Carefree vs 9 to 5