Sex before marriage. Whew. So this is an interesting topic. I'll give the history on where my viewpoints come from so you understand my stance on the matter. *Clears throat* Alright, so I was brought up in a Christian household. My mother was/still is a Minister of Music so I was in the church with… Continue reading Try Before you Buy…Not talking Cars.
Can sex before marriage hinder you from finding your husband or wife? Question of the day. A lot of women feel that if they have sex with a man too soon, or at all, he will look at her in a different, often negative, way. Others think it doesn't matter at all. Men get to… Continue reading Sex before marriage or nah?
I really do love ya'll Men if you are reading this, first of all I just want to start off by saying that I love ya'll, I really do... but I am in a weird space with men right now. Dating in LA has left me to deal with the situation in extremes. I have… Continue reading Menz
Oh Valentines Day. So many people hate you, but there are so many people that anticipate this day so much, they start their planning on January 2nd. I am neither of those people. Once Upon a Time....... Way backkkkkkkk in 2003..... There was a basketball player and a cheerleader that rode the same middle school… Continue reading VDAY
So for one of my courses I did a blog post about code switching. According to Google Dictionary code switching is the practice of alternating between two or more languages or varieties of language in conversation. I discussed how for me, code switching has always had a deeper definition. Code switching for me means changing the way I speak or act… Continue reading If it aint white, it aint right. At least that’s what they trying to tell us.
Alright sooooo. I'm about to share some stuff I haven't even shared with my girls yet. We decided that we were going to blog about men. And then Black History Month, and then Valentine's Day. And guess how much I blogged about. My bad y'all I am far behind, so I am trying to play… Continue reading Men…
Shucky Ducky and a Quack Quack February 14th. The day of love. Passion. Romance. Sybaris Sales. The time where Wal-mart and 'nem all set out the helium pumped, heart-shape balloons, the orchids and roses, red and pink cards, plushies, teddies, and Koalas that say "I'm Koalified to be yours," and of course the chocolate hearts.… Continue reading Happy Valen-spendalotofmoney-Tine’s Day!
So unless you've been (cliche saying coming up) living under a rock, you've probably heard of the movie 'The Green Book', which is about a African-American pianist who goes on tour in the south and has a White driver/protector to get him around. Like most movies, (I haven't seen it but can guess the outcome)… Continue reading My History.
Is it just me, or does this statement come from people that don't really change?? Hopefully by the end of this, I will have a whole new statement to carry me through 2019! 2018 was BAD, like real I started 2018 with the death of my aunt LaShonda (known to me as Eesha). She was… Continue reading New Year, New Me!
Ever since I was little, I've had this idea of what adulthood should look like. For a woman, heels, blazer, skirt or trousers, and nice bag as a substitute for the mans briefcase. I received this image from seeing my mother work a corporate job my whole life as well as what the media portrays… Continue reading Carefree vs 9 to 5